CHANGING A CAREER GOAL
· If you've been obsessing for years over a specific career goal without any success, it may be time to move on.
· Here are some reasons that you should consider giving up:
1. It's making you sick
· Obsessing over long-term goals may be harmful to your health, as it is linked to lower levels of CRP, a protein that indicates inflammation in the body, which is linked to problems like diabetes and heart disease.
· Giving up on impossible goals is also linked to lower levels of depression and stress symptoms.
2. The goals aren't realistic
· You should think critically about whether you're making progress, and what it is that you expect to achieve with this goal.
· If your plan is very specific, move to a new dream if it looks like you won't reach the destination.
· However, if you're in it for the experience, there's no need to abandon your dream all together.
· If it's only the destination that matters, swap it out if it's not performing.
· If it's a dream where the joy comes from the journey, keeping it means keeping joy in your life.
· Consider making your goals broader and give yourself room to adapt.
3. It's no longer right for you
· It's difficult to let go of something that you've put a lot of time and effort into, but you need to be flexible enough to realize when something is no longer worth it.
· Sometimes people may doggedly pursue a career path because that's what they studied in college or because they're too scared to start over.
· But by doing this, you're restricting yourself from other experiences that could be more in line with your desires.
· Be willing to let your dreams change and not feel guilty or that you’ve failed.
· Sometimes, you have to let go of old dreams to let the new ones in.
· That’s not 'giving up.' It’s growing up."
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